While moral deterioration and materialistic thinking have shaken the foundations of family circles, people seem so reluctant to form new relations people have defined new, rather superficial, standards for long-term engagement in future, particularly, the matrimonial relationship.... Read More...
Individuals looking for a spouse and the parents trying to find a suitable life partner for their child get desperate and disappointed when any one of their expectations is not catered to positively. So, they quit on the way and start searching for what they call better alternatives.
So, what could be the practical solution to the prevailing social issue?
The best thing in this regard is to do your best and leave the rest on Allah. Another thing to keep in mind is that no individual is perfect in this world. It means you will have to ignore some of the flaws in their personality while looking for a suitable spouse.
The standards of selection are also to be changed. For example, a person’s character should be given more importance than their wealth or physical appearance. Such a thought will not only take you closer to Allah but also pave an easy and short way to reach the best partner for life.
While you fulfil your obligation to Almighty Allah and His creatures, you can also recite a Wazifa for Shadi. A Wazifa for shadi is actually a prayer which may involve the recitation of a Masnoon Dua or a verse from the Holy Quran.
You can perform the Quranic wazifa for shadi by reciting the verse 54 of chapter 25 (Surah Al-Furqan). However, prior to reciting this verse, you should learn its translation in Urdu or English, so that you may know what you are saying to Allah.
وَهُوَ الَّذِي خَلَقَ مِنَ الْمَاءِ بَشَرًا فَجَعَلَهُ نَسَبًا وَصِهْرًا ۗ وَكَانَ رَبُّكَ قَدِيرًا
Translation: And it is He who has created from water a human being and made him [a relative by] lineage and marriage. And ever is your Lord competent [concerning creation].
ترجمہ: اور وہی ہے جس نے پانی سے بنایا آدمی پھر اس کے رشتے اور سسرال مقرر کیے اور تمہارا رب قدرت والا ہے۔
In this verse, you are praising Allah Almighty for creating a human being with water and putting them in lineage and marriage relations.